The Happy Wife

Over the past eight years, I have become aware that my happiness in my marriage is as much dependent on what I do for or with him as it is on what he does for me. Happiness is a choice I make. I would love for my blog to become a place where other wives would come to be an encouragement to each other by reading my blogs and their comments.

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Schmoozin' and 'Busin'

My husband actually hit me this morning. Haha! I know - after the last post, that does not sound good. But in reality it was funny.

The past few days have been better. We kissed, made up and have been getting along. Then we went to a graduation. I sat down with my pastor and his wife with some food and Pastor started talking about the building our church is looking to buy, how promising it is, that there are rooms already that would make Sunday school rooms, etc. He's all excited about this idea. Turns out, the whole church has been talking about it for weeks - except for me. I had no clue.

When we got home, my husband pulled the whole "I was gonna tell ya," thing. Oh brother. Anyway, now I know, I'm okay. But this morning, I was teasing him about our lack of communication. After he went back to the computer, I decided I better go a little easy on him, so I walked up behind him to place a kiss on the back of his neck.

"AAH!!" He jumped and swung. His fist connected with my forehead. Thank God it wasn't my eye. He had really been into his work and I startled him pretty bad. My word. He said I should know by now not to sneak up on him, but I didn't think I was. Oh well!!! Now I do know.

Thursday, May 18, 2006

Wow! A whole month

I was looking at my blog and realized that it has been a month since I posted. I logged in and tried to blog. It has taken nearly ten minutes to get to this post. Sheesh!! No wonder I don't blog often.

Anyway, the marriage is great - haha! We've been arguing like cats and dogs lately. He has finally started leading in devotions as a couple, but by now, I'm so tired of the whole mess, that I often feel like a hipocrite. But he's doing something, so I will NOT complain.

On a good note - nope there aren't any good notes this week.

Have a wonderful day everybody.